1. “Faggy” is just an expression and isn’t necessarily one directed toward gay males.

2. Phil’s daughter’s comment about “even gay men don’t look good in Spandex” implies that gay men have a sense for fashion, but even they can’t pull off wearing Spandex. If anything that is a compliment to them.

3. What does Phil being from San Francisco have anything to do with the gay community?

It would appear that you are being judgmental and stereotypical. We don’t discriminate…when it comes down to it, it’s just a matter of opinion/perspective…how you perceive things. Sorry if you perceived that as extremely offensive, it was not meant to be.